Can love be arranged?
" Locha-e-ulfat "hogyaa! Ahhh! The problem of love is here :p .
Love is a feeling! Love is an emotion! Love is the smile at the very thought of someone! Love is care and affection! Love is to be the reason of someone's smile! Love is to smile for someone! Love is to be sorrowful in someone's sorrow! A four letter word yet abounds the beauty as deep as an ocean. Amidst all these, Love just happens! once upon a lifetime fortune :p The brain just halts & the heart commences. So the very notion of making an arranged love just makes me thoughtful! Is it possible or not? Well, for novice ones who have not fallen for someone, it is. It would be beautiful indeed if your parents find a guy or for a guy, a girl & then gradually you start loving that person instead of keeping your taste buds aloof from this sweet taste ;) . You subsequently start building the castles of your dreams with that person. You feel everything of his or her to be your own :) .
But once fallen for someone and then thinking of an arranged love, is a difficult thought for mind to think of. Isn’t it? Love is an emotion for which you can’t be bounded by. It would then be like developing a liking for some local brand pizza when you don’t have dominoes available at your place :p. Arrange marriage in the latter case is feeding your mind persistently with the thought of maktub(Everything is pre-written). So it would be wise to swim along with the happenings. Going against the flow is always miserable.
Happy reading :)
P.S. Apologies for making a little extra use of smileys because I strongly believe words capture emotions and for capturing emotions- emoticons are at my rescue :)
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